What Great Leadership Looks Like Across Generations

“The myth we need to stop telling about generations at work”

“Every generation gets a label. The youngest workers are entitled. The oldest are resistant to change. Those in the middle need constant validation.

These stereotypes circulate through boardrooms and team meetings as though they were scientific facts, but they are so far removed from reality.

The most common misunderstanding I encounter in leadership conversations is the belief that generational differences are fixed personality traits rather than contextual responses to the world people grew up in.

Think of it like climate versus weather. A generation’s shared experiences, whether economic conditions, technology or social movements, shape a general climate of values and expectations. But every individual within that generation experiences their own daily weather. Treating someone as a generational type rather than a whole person is like cancelling your plans because it usually rains in November.

What I have observed across twenty years of leadership work is this, the real friction in intergenerational teams rarely comes from age itself. It comes from unexamined assumptions about age. A senior leader who assumes younger colleagues lack strategic depth. A younger employee who dismisses experienced colleagues as out of touch. Both are letting stereotypes do the work that curiosity should be doing.

Intergenerational teams, when led well, are one of the most powerful assets an organisation has. You get the wisdom of experience alongside the energy of a fresh perspective. But that only works when leaders create environments where people are seen as individuals first.

The most dangerous thing about generational stereotypes is not that they are entirely wrong. It is that they are just true enough to feel comfortable, and just false enough to cause real harm.

It really is time to stop labelling and start listening.”

Mike is a distinguished business leader advocating for diversity, equity, and inclusion. His mission is cultivating inclusive environments where leaders and organisations thrive by integrating DEI principles with impactful leadership strategies.

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“The power of reverse mentoring”

“A lot of businesses try hard to develop intergenerational learning through – for example – occasional panels or perhaps informal mentoring. For those looking to reduce generational types, maybe break down hierarchy and really accelerate the transfer of knowledge, how about exploring the benefits of reverse mentoring, where clear, mutual goals are established between younger employees who are looped with more senior colleagues?

Rotate them every three to six months. And if you do not recognise the value and perspectives that young employees have as well as the value and experiences that older employees have, you’re going nowhere! Be sure to build this into performance or at the very least development plans so it’s taken seriously”.

Affectionately known as the Chief Muscle Warrior, Michael McGrath MBE is the founder and CEO of the Muscle Help Foundation (MHF), the UK’s leading experiential Muscular Dystrophy charity.

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“As leaders, we need to challenge our own assumptions”

“I was recently designing some training for a client and had calls with senior stakeholders across the world.

These were very senior leaders. It’s hard to judge ages over Teams, but the youngest was probably in their early 50s. And each one raised the same concern about their younger workforce. They didn’t use a word like ‘snowflakes’ but the sentiment sat nearby. There was a feeling that younger colleagues made a fuss, that they didn’t just get on with it, that they were oversensitive.

I found that tough to hear. Was that really the issue? Or were we missing something bigger?

My response was that we need to rethink what we label as ‘oversensitive’. And maybe we need to be honest about what we’ve tolerated in the past. Just because some of the workforce once worked 70 hour weeks to show commitment, doesn’t mean that was ever healthy. And just because people were told to shrug off inappropriate behaviour, it doesn’t mean that was acceptable.

Of course younger people can be sensitive at times – just as older people can be.

But as leaders we need to challenge our own assumptions. And we might have to sit in the discomfort of realising that some of the things we accepted without question really weren’t okay.

There’s a flip side too. There’s still a widespread belief that older generations resist change. There can be some truth in that, but we need to understand the ‘why’. Do they fear a new process will make their role redundant, both figuratively and literally? Do they feel their knowledge is being overlooked or pushed aside? What sits at the heart of that hesitation?

These are the questions worth asking. Because without them we fall back on stereotypes which aren’t helpful for the individuals, for leaders, or for organisations as a whole.

Stef has co-designed e-learning in 30+ languages and advised clients including Glanbia plc, Eurovia and Specsavers. Currently completing an MBA at the University of Exeter, Stef has a Certificate in D&I from Cornell. Stef partners with leadership teams to align inclusion and culture with performance and purpose.

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What next?

Intergenerational teams aren’t a challenge to solve, but an opportunity to lead better. When organisations move beyond stereotypes and take time to understand different perspectives, they unlock stronger collaboration, better decision-making, and more resilient cultures.

The most effective leaders don’t focus on age — they focus on creating clarity, trust, and shared purpose. As the world of work continues to evolve, those who embrace intergenerational inclusion with curiosity and intent will be far better placed to adapt, innovate, and thrive.

To bring these conversations to life in your organisation, book one of our Intergenerational Leadership Speakers and inspire your teams with fresh perspectives and real-world stories. And if you’re ready to turn awareness into action, speak to Mix about launching tailored training or workshops around intergenerational inclusion and leading intergenerational teams.